The Dangers of Double-Checking

For People who are trying for UPSC Civil Services / other exams ::::
What you need to do :::

1. Newspaper is very important , so make a habit to read and never forget to make notes out of it . Because at last you can revise your own made notes not the whole lot of newspaper .

2. Make a habit of solving questions while studying . This will really help you to understand well . Also where you go wrong , try to write it down .

3. Come out of your lazy environment and just think that a limited period of smart and hard work would give you or show you the path you desired .

4. Also be aware of the negative and sad people who either have the habit of cribbing or have the habit of pointing out fingers to other .

5. Make a rule that you will avoid time pass and you will do hardcore study which is required .

All the besttttttt ..

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जरुर पढ़े :
सच्चे और अनमोल वचन :::
Very true :

कभी भी किसी का मज़ाक़ या किसी पर हँसना नहीं चाहिए । किसी की मजबूरी का भी मज़ाक़ नहीं उड़ाना चाहिए । आपको अपने ही हँसी का क़र्ज़ चुकाना पड़ेगा और ये निश्चित हैं। इसीलिए किसी के लिए अगर अच्छा बोल नहीं सकते तो कम से कम बुरा मत बोलो। नहीं तो पता नहीं की तक़दीर किस रूप में उसका भुगतान आपसे करवाएगा ।

अच्छा रहता हैं की मनुष्य अपने ऊपर ध्यान दे , ना की दूसरों में । जलन , krodh, ईर्ष्या , नफ़रत आदि से सिर्फ़ अपना ही नुक़सान करना है ना की दूसरों का । दूसरों पर ऊँगली उठाने से पहले ख़ुद का गिरेबान्न झाक कर देख लेना चाहिए । अगर दूसरा कोई आपको कुछ बोल नहीं रहा हैं इसका ये मतलब नहीं की वह कमज़ोर है , इसका यह तात्पर्य है की वह आपकी इज़्ज़त कर रहा हैं। परन्तु आपका बोला हुआ शब्द का उत्तर आपको ख़ुद आज नहीं तो कल मिलेगा , और वो बहुत जादाँ ही कष्ट दायक होगा ।

इसीलिए अपना दिल साफ़ रखिए , दूसरों को तकलीफ़ मत दीजिए और दूसरों की ख़ुशी में ख़ुश रहिए।

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Very true :::

You have to be kind to people who are rude to you. When people treat you poorly, it’s tempting to stoop to their level and return the favor. People with mental strength don’t allow others to walk all over them, but that doesn’t mean they’re rude to them, either. Instead, they treat rude and cruel people with the same kindness they extend to everyone else, because they don’t allow another person’s negativity to bring them down.

You have to be accountable for your actions, no matter what.

You have to keep your emotions in check.Negative emotions challenge your mental strength every step of the way. While it’s impossible not to feel your emotions, it’s completely under your power to manage them effectively and to keep yourself in control of them. When you let your emotions overtake your ability to think clearly, it’s easy to lose your resolve. A bad mood can make you lash out or stray from your chosen direction just as easily as a good mood can make you overconfident and impulsive.

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Never ever blame anyone in your life . Just don't repent on your action . If you have done anything wrong , then also try to correct your path in future . Try to learn from your mistakes and make your future actions appropriate accordingly .

You will encounter different set of people , each will give you different experience along with lessons . Just try to be alert . Don't think too much . If anything is bothering you a lot , just see where you can work hard and give your best and just do that . Don't let things impact you adversely . But don't be so simple also , so that people may take undue advantage . In this own world , everything will be balanced . You will surely have to pay for your actions.

But just don't let others bother you or impact you adversely . Try to be positive and let the aura of Positivity always be there with you .

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Very Important Lessons for living a good Life :::

1. Not all opportunities are to be taken. Some are traps.
2. A person can become so determined to destroy another person that they become blind and end up destroying themselves.
3. You fight best in your natural element and environment. 
4. Know your limits, we all have them.
5. Sometimes the best response to provocation is not to fight.
6. Sometimes to accomplish something you need team work, you will not always win alone.
7. Stick to what you do best.

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😀😀😀 Opportunities and Patience 😀😀😀

हर इंसान को जो मौक़ा मिलता हैं ,उसे गँवाना नहीं चाहिए । जो भी मौक़ा मिला है , उसका पूरा इस्तेमाल करना चाहिए। अपना सपना और अपना नाम बनाने के लिए उस मौक़े का अच्छे से इस्तेमाल करना चाहिए ।

Never ever let opportunities go unattended . In fact make full use of it and try to make best out of it . Be alert and attentive .

Have patience and don't answer to every one . No need to reply to every one . Sometimes you should leave it on time as time is there to reply and time's reply is the most perfect one 

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Let people keep talking about you behind your back. Don't let it affect you . If they are talking negative , then also don't let it impact you . Instead work towards your goal and vision and keep moving .

If you start paying attention to all these talks , then you would automatically deviate from your path as well as could not use your full potential . Therefore the need is to let them bark . And with your constant dedication and hard work , these same people would get a perfect answer .

If you start paying attention to negativities then you gonna loose your positive attitude as well as waste your valuable time .
So let the dogs keep barking and you just keep moving .

Sooner or later they are going to get their answer and you will definitely rise . It is also said that if people talk bad or wrong things behind you , it is a signal of your rise as well as good will also happen to you 

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Motivational story :::

Very Motivating story shared by a successful person ::::

When I was 15 I was told that when I finished high school, because I wasn't book smart, I could possibly 'work in a factory packing boxes'. That was the biggest motivational moment in my entire life because I knew I'd prove them wrong. 15 years later I don't kill my haters with kindness, time or energy - I kill them with success.

When you have haters hoping you fail I hope you do the same..... Inspire yourself and kill them with success!!!

"Let your haters be your motivators"!!

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This is very true:::

One must not be sad if darkness comes in the way , instead just say to yourself that be patient and calm and then move on your way .
You will surely see that automatically your path becomes clear and you keep moving on .

Life is more about how you handle and deal with the situation rather than what the situation is .
Instead focus on your inner self and don't be tensed uselessly as it is not going to help you at any cost .

If people talk wrong about you , just think that how important are you to them so that they are spending their important time on you .
Let things not impact you negatively .
Keep moving .